
On May 5, 2007 my friend Emily married her boyfriend of three years, Eddie. They met through eharmony.com around the same time Matt and I met through match.com! Due to job situations, most of their relationship was long distance (2-4 hrs drive), but they made it work. It was a match made in Heaven; both Emily and Eddie are very grounded in their Christian beliefs and recognized that God prepared them both for each other. The wedding was held in Richmond, VA at St. Joseph’s Villa just south of Ashland. The reception followed only a few miles away at the Belmont Recreation Center. This album contains a few pictures from the wedding rehersal, Emily’s lingerie party, the girls getting ready, the wedding, and reception. I was blessed enough to read during the ceremony, the poem titled “A Perfect Love”.
A Perfect Love
Everyone longs to give themselves completely to someone. To have a deep soul relationship with another, to be loved thoroughly and exclusively. But God to the Christian says, “No, not until you are satisfied and fulfilled and content with living, loved by Me alone and giving yourself totally and unreservedly to Me, to have an intensely personal and unique relationship with Me alone.”
“I love you, My child, and until you discover that only in Me is your satisfaction to be found, you will not be capable of the perfect human relationship that I have planned for you. You will never be united with another until you are united with Me–exclusive of anyone or anything else, exclusive of any other desires or belongings.”
“I want you to stop planning, stop wishing, and allow Me to bring it to you. You just keep watching Me, expecting the greatest things. Keep learning and listening to the things I tell you. You must wait.”
“Don’t be anxious and don’t worry. Don’t look around at the things you think you want. Just keep looking off and away up to Me, or you’ll miss what I have to show you.”
“And then, when you’re ready, I’ll surprise you with a love far more wonderful than any you would ever dream. You see, until you are ready and until the one I have for you is ready, I am working this minute to have both of you ready at the same time, and until you are both satisfied exclusively with Me and the life I’ve prepared for you, you won’t be able to experience the love that exemplifies your relationship with Me, and this is perfect love.”
“And dear one, I want you to have this most wonderful love. I want you to see in the flesh a picture of your relationship with Me, and to enjoy materially and concretely the everlasting union of beauty and perfection and love that I offer you with Myself. Know that I love you. I am God Almighty, believe and be satisfied.”